Feeling overwhelmed? These short, calming breathwork techniques are designed to help to find peace in the mayhem of motherhood.
Between the school runs, meal planning, sleepless nights and constant multitasking, parenting can sometimes feel like one long to-do list. In the middle of all that busyness, it’s easy to forget the one person who holds it all together – you.
That’s where breathwork comes in. This simple yet powerful practice helps bring calm, clarity and balance, even on the most chaotic of days. The best part is it only takes a few minutes and can be done anywhere – in the car, in the shower or even while waiting for the kettle to boil.
Why it matters
When we’re stressed, our breathing becomes shallow and fast. This sends signals to the brain that we’re in danger, triggering the body’s fight-or-flight response – cue tension, irritability and exhaustion!
By slowing down and deepening our breath, we flip the switch. The nervous system calms, heart rates lowers and the mind becomes clearer. It’s like pressing a reset button – one breath at a time. Breathwork isn’t about doing it “perfectly” – it’s about creating tiny moments of peace and presence in a very full day.
Three simple techniques
You don’t need a yoga mat or a candlelit room – just a few quiet seconds and a willingness to pause.
Box Breathing
Used by athletes and even the military, this technique is brilliant when everything feels a bit much and you are overwhelmed.
- Inhale for 4 counts
- Hold for 4 counts
- Exhale for 4 counts
- Hold for 4 counts
Repeat four rounds and you will feel your mind start to slow down.
The Sigh
This is one for moments when you need instant relief! All you need to do is let out a big sigh. Then do it again – this time, inhale through your nose, then exhale with an open mouth, making a soft “haaaa” sound. It might feel silly, but it’s incredibly effective at releasing tension. Try three in a row to feel the shift.
4-7-8 Breathing
This technique helps settle a racing mind. The ideal technique for before bed, it’s perfect for unwinding after a long day.
- Inhale through your nose for 4
- Hold the breath for 7
- Exhale slowly through your mouth for 8
Do this for between two and four rounds. It’s a great tool for calming both body and mind before sleep.
A gift to yourself
Breathwork is a gentle reminder that calm doesn’t have to come from a weekend away or a perfect routine. Sometimes, it’s just a few conscious breaths, grounding you in the present and giving your nervous system the support it needs.
So the next time you’re about to lose your patience or feel like you’re running on empty, pause. Breathe. Parenting is no easy feat and that moment of breath might just be the most restorative one of your day.
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